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Marriage Preparation

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St. Paul’s letter to the Ephesians, chapter 5, verses 23-33, taken in its entirety and properly interpreted, contains a beautiful explanation of marriage, a “great mystery.” God sees how a husband and wife give their lives for each other just as Christ gave his life for us. Knowing the depth of love between husband and wife, God deems it a sign of Christ’s love for his bride, the Church.

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Marge Kosmahl
Pre Cana Registrar

Family Life Office
400 Wyoming Avenue
Scranton, PA  18503
Phone: 207-2213, ext. 1118
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Only the bride and groom can consent to give their lives to each other faithfully and forever. The bride and groom speak the marriage vows and confer the Sacrament of Marriage on one another. A decision to enter marriage is sacred, permanent, and indissoluble and requires careful preparation

If you are seriously thinking about marriage or are engaged, know that Christ and the Church are with you, yet you alone are responsible for understanding what marriage vows entail and assessing whether you will be able to live them. We rejoice that you want a Christian marriage and come to your parish and diocese for assistance. We want to help you prepare not only for your wedding day but for a lifetime of love together.

Even if you are not yet engaged but are seriously contemplating marriage, it is not too soon to talk with a priest about the important step you are considering.

As soon as you start planning marriage, make an appointment to visit with your parish priest.

A year before your anticipated wedding will give you adequate time; nine months is the minimum time to allow. Be sure to schedule an appointment before making any wedding arrangements.

Your questions about Catholic marriage preparation may be answered at http://www.usccb.org/laity/marriage/marriagefaqs.shtml

During preparation for marriage in the Diocese of Scranton you can expect to:

  1. Meet with a parish priest or his delegate (a deacon or pastoral staff member) to learn about guidelines and procedures, begin the prenuptial inquiry that gathers information needed for Church records, and tentatively set a church wedding date.
  2. Fill out a premarital assessment instrument. This inventory will help you explore your relationship, think about what each of you is bringing to marriage, and become more aware of your strengths and challenges. The assessment instrument enables marriage preparation to fit your needs.
  3. Attend the enrichment program the priest specifies. It may include a Pre-Cana Conference and/or sessions with a mentor couple.
  4. Obtain Natural Family Planning (NFP) instruction.
  5. Meet again with the priest or deacon to follow up on the enrichment program and sign Church forms.
  6. Plan your wedding liturgy with the assistance of a priest, deacon, or liturgist.
  7. Use the final months before your wedding for intense spiritual preparation through prayer and the sacraments.

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This conference can help you continue your discernment about God’s call to marriage, consider what marriage requires, take a new look at your relationship, see the Catholic vision for marriage, grow in faith, and learn some skills known to enhance success and happiness in marriage.

The seven and one-half hour program is based on a theology of the body taught by Pope John Paul II and includes:

  • Couple Prayer
  • FOCCUS administration
  • Speaker-Listener Instruction and Practice
  • God’s Plan for Marriage “In the Beginning”
  • Christ Restores God’s Plan for Marriage
  • What Are You Saying “I Do” To?
  • The Joy of Sexual Honesty Before Marriage
  • The Joy of Sexual Honesty Within Marriage
  • The Practical Benefits of Natural Family Planning
  • Opportunity to talk one-on-one with team couples

In addition, couples attending the Pre-Cana program will receive lunch, program workbooks, and Christopher West’s Good News About Sex and Marriage.

Seminars and conferences are scheduled by deanery. Directions to the site will be provided in a confirmation letter.

FOCCUS will be administered at all Pre-Cana Conferences.

Registration Fee of $100 must be sent and made payable to the Diocese of Scranton before we can process your registration and forward a confirmation letter to you.

DIOCESAN PRE-CANA SCHEDULE AND REGISTRATION:

Saturday, May 19, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., Monroe (Tannersville)

Sunday, June 3, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., Scranton (Dalton)

Saturday, June 9, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4 p.m., Drums (South Luzerne)

Sunday, June 24, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., Scranton (City of Scranton)

Saturday, July 14, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., Lycoming/Tioga (Williamsport)

Saturday, August 4, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., Wilkes-Barre (Wilkes-Barre)

Saturday, August 11, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., Monroe (Tannersville)

Saturday, August 18, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., Wayne/Pike (Milford)

Sunday, August 19, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., Scranton (City of Scranton)

Saturday, August 25, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4 p.m., Mid-Valley/Lackawanna (Peckville)

Sunday, September 9, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., Scranton (Dalton)

Saturday, September 15, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., North Luzerne (Pittston)

Saturday, September 22, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., Lycoming/Tioga (Williamsport)

Saturday, October 6, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., Mid-Valley/Lackawanna (Peckville)

Saturday, November 3, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4 p.m., Mid-Valley/Lackawanna (Peckville)

Saturday, November 10, 2012, 8:30 a.m. – 4 p.m., Drums (South Luzerne)

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR ONE OF THE PRE-CANA SESSIONS LISTED ABOVE

Online Marriage Preparation Course

If it is impossible for you to attend a Pre-Cana conference, your pastor may permit you to take a course of preparation via the Internet. Talk with him about Catholic Marriage Preparation, Inc.

Catholic Marriage Preparation is an online program based on Pope John Paul II’s theology of the body and the Catechism of the Catholic Church. The program provides print and CD study materials and requires the completion of five worksheets, which are submitted electronically. The program covers these and other topics:

  • God’s plan for humanity
  • Vocation of man and woman
  • Sin and its consequences
  • The Sacrament of Matrimony
  • Letter of St. Paul to the Ephesians
  • Humanae Vitae and conscience
  • The Rite of Marriage
  • Freedom, self-gift, faithfulness, and openness to life
  • Forgiveness
  • Your body is a temple
  • Relationship tools
  • Potential problems in marriage
  • Praying together

This course costs $165 including materials and personalized responses to each workshop. You may register by phone (866-425-7193) or at the Catholic Marriage Preparation, Inc website. You must have permission of the priest assisting your marriage preparation to take this online course instead of attending Pre Cana.

Pre-marriage enrichment programs and processes

Check with the priest, deacon, or pastoral staff person assisting you with marriage preparation before registering for an enrichment program to be sure it is right for you. You are advised to register early and to choose a session scheduled at least six to nine months before your anticipated wedding date.

Parish Pre-Cana Conferences

Some parishes conduct marriage preparation programs of their own design. If the priest with whom you are working approves, you may attend one of the following parish-sponsored programs that accept couples who are not parishioners. To obtain further information about what the session includes and to register, please call the phone number given with the site in which you are interested.

The following parish-sponsored programs will accept couples who are not parishioners.

For further information and registration call the number given.

Spanish Language Marriage Preparation

Para la preparación de la unión en español, hable por favor con su sacerdote de la parroquia.

East Stroudsburg: Parroquia de Santo Matthew, 570-421-2342

Hazleton: Parroquia de Santo Gabriel, 570-454-0212

Scranton: Parroquia de Natividad de Nuestro Señor, 570-344-6159

Tobyhanna: Parroquia de Santo Ana, 570-894-8018

Wilkes-Barre: Parroquia de Santa Rosario, 570-822-1183

Natural Family Planning

Obtain Natural Family Planning instruction well before your wedding. Six months of charting will give you confidence to use NFP, should you need to, at the beginning of your marriage.

 

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